Something that's always confused people... Why is it that alot of the time, when something is within easy reach, or something is throwing themself at us for example, we tend to take it for granted and either make use for our own benefits only, but we do not seem to care for the other party's feelings, or of other benefits. yes, there are nice people, who would argue that they never do this and never will, but we're all guilty of it in one way or another. Then, when we want something, that is out of reach or someone who doesn't feel the same way about you, we feel like we want it/them more. Most people, given a choice between the two, would choose the person or thing they want more rather than the person who wants them more, and yes that would only be natural you say, no matter how much thought you put into it. I would love to be able to answer why we do this one day.